Strange Year

Well Folks

What a year this has been 4 me, I lost my cat, my girl and my dad had a heart attack. My r6 is still in the shop so the stress relive program is gone. I spoke with some friends back home and I am thinking of selling it all and working for a dive shop down in the islands. I think perhaps the laid back life will be a good break from all this fast paced work too much crap, any who I have not had a meal in 2 days and I feel like crap...

any one got words to cheer the old KP up?

you just hafta get through it man. that's the only way. :sorry:

what happened to you and your girl?

you just hafta ge through it man. that's the only way. :sorry:

what happened to you and your girl?

Ya know, i don't like bad mouthing people in public forums but...
(her view)
1. I work too much
2. I do not make her a priority
3. I was never meant to be with her because we always fighting.

(my view) :readng:
Man... I am not gonna say because the list was huge, I think things could improve and that is why I did not ever just walk away like she did. But I think it is for the best, she will see that not many guys appreciate being yelled at in public, much less in front of their family members (rather humiliating) amongst other intolerable events.

Anyways, it is time for a new beginning I been walking around the house this am I think I am gonna ride my roomies cruiser to the beach NOT :bonk:
I am going in my convertible to Daytona, lets see what happens today.

Sounds like she was a selfish betch!! You better off d00d :dthumb:

Get another bike n ride. Its relaxin:cheers:

Ya know, i don't like bad mouthing people in public forums but...
(her view)
1. I work too much
2. I do not make her a priority
3. I was never meant to be with her because we always fighting.

(my view) :readng:
Man... I am not gonna say because the list was huge, I think things could improve and that is why I did not ever just walk away like she did. But I think it is for the best, she will see that not many guys appreciate being yelled at in public, much less in front of their family members (rather humiliating) amongst other intolerable events.

Anyways, it is time for a new beginning I been walking around the house this am I think I am gonna ride my roomies cruiser to the beach NOT :bonk:
I am going in my convertible to Daytona, lets see what happens today.

yeah, i guess it's probably good not to air your laundry on here, especially since you are both members. too bad it didn't work out, but it was probably for the best. you both deserve to find what you are looking for and be happy. just take the experience for what it was.

my step-dad had a heart attack last month. i lost my real dad in a car accident 5 years ago, so the heart attack really set our family back and spooked us. we weren't ready to lose another dad. thank god things went our way this time. all is well so far.

don't worry, things will look up soon. just remember, you have lots of friends on here. we're here for ya.

(PS, sorry i missed your IM. i am really bad about forgetting to turn on my away message when i leave the computer. i wasn't blowing you off. :hug: )

UPDATE...

I stayed in town and went flying my brothers RC plane (pretty simple day):
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Well Folks

What a year this has been 4 me, I lost my cat, my girl and my dad had a heart attack. My r6 is still in the shop so the stress relive program is gone. I spoke with some friends back home and I am thinking of selling it all and working for a dive shop down in the islands. I think perhaps the laid back life will be a good break from all this fast paced work too much crap, any who I have not had a meal in 2 days and I feel like crap...

any one got words to cheer the old KP up?

I"m still digging myself out of my "worst" year man. girfriend had another guys baby, parents divorced, havent been in school, had to leave some of my best friends behind me because of drugs...

I was tryin to think of something to say, but honestly knowing what shape your in i know there IS nothing anybody can say that you haven't heard or dont already know.



Just keep this in the back of your mind, at times it has been the only thing i could hold on to.

Time heals all wounds.

I"m still digging myself out of my "worst" year man. girfriend had another guys baby, parents divorced, havent been in school, had to leave some of my best friends behind me because of drugs...

I was tryin to think of something to say, but honestly knowing what shape your in i know there IS nothing anybody can say that you haven't heard or dont already know.



Just keep this in the back of your mind, at times it has been the only thing i could hold on to.

Time heals all wounds.

Thank you for the kind words, I think that is can only get better before it gets worse. I tell ya just some times I ask my self what god did i piss off?

:cursin: :cursin: :cursin:

Ahh well

Dr Phil says: Find another girl and ride her like you would ride your bike (if you had it that is)!

This year has been pretty decent for me. Well i guess any off year i get from Iraq is a good one. But I will be back there in Oct

This year has been pretty decent for me. Well i guess any off year i get from Iraq is a good one. But I will be back there in Oct

:yikes: sucks to be you.... <insert knocking on wood smilie>

This year has been pretty decent for me. Well i guess any off year i get from Iraq is a good one. But I will be back there in Oct

Damn Dude good luck with all that... Hopefully you will be ok

:sorry: :hug: I'm so sorry... you've definitely had a rough year.

You've just gotta allow yourself to experience the hurt and anger as it comes, and over time, it'll get better. Really. There's no magical way to feel better.... the pain merely means you're human. :hug:

not many guys appreciate being yelled at in public, much less in front of their family members (rather humiliating) amongst other intolerable events.



:yikes: Um, yeah, NO one deserves to be treated like that. Ever.

Well,

Here is the update... First off I want to say that Long distance relationships are not that bad, if you are willing (both) to put in the time and effort to making it work, second I just got a raise, third I called my ex class mate ( I am going to the virgin islands) to check out the dive shop sounds very promising. Downside is that there is really no riding there. I mean lets say you can cover all the roads in 1 day (that sounds funny as hell)

Financially Selling car/bike I can manage but If it does not work out I am planning for at least a year or two to stay there and chill (no more stressful jobs)

The upside is waking up to something like this should be nice:
http://www.thebuccaneer.com/photos06/06b-i-04-792-520.jpg

maybe before all in print a gap ride should be merit.

Sorry to hear about the bad string of stuff. Do what you got to do man. Nobody can fault you for doing what you feel is needed. I have been there too man, I bet we all have. When you just feel like everything is stacked against you. You'll make it thru it.