Damn Woman!

Arrrrggghhhhhhh:cursin: My girl "EX" and I just had an argument over ****ing IM!!! The entire world can go to hell right now!!!!:redevil: She basically dumped me last month. We started dating about 10 months ago. After a while, we said "I love you." I thought the world was perfect. After a while she questions everything, says she needs "a musician, someone to challenge me." WTF?! I challenge you every ******* day! And your head is even harder than mine!! How can you waste time on trying to deal with someone you love? I had my doubts in the beginning. But then I thought she was it. The one. :hug: Even after she broke up with me! She was moving to ATL, so what? We knew how to beat the distance. We had been since it started! She starts into finals, and all ****ing kinds of chit and stress. FINE, I can deal with stress I can deal with only talking for a few minutes. We could talk for hours every day! Several times a day! I thought we could make it. Who doesn't have issues? She's the smartest damn woman I've ever met. Finally someone I looked forward to talking with every day. As big a geek as me, and not too modest. Sex was incredible! We did it all kinds of places, tried everything we could think of, and if it didn't work laughed it off. Scared of bikes and guns, but I could work on that. Almost got her to ride around the parking lot one time. So tonight we start having an innocent conversation. She says it's hard to talk to me and I ask why? I genuinely care. Bad Idea... She says because you can't be friends right away. I try to change the subject- "that won't stop it.":skep: All downhill from there. Now I'm sure she hates my guts and I'm still in love:nonod: I told her to call me when she's ready, since I always call at the wrong time. God I hope she does. As many bad experiences as she's had, she won't listen to me. There's no convincing her that we can work! When it was good, it was perfect. I would give her anything. I say she still has issues from her last relationship, and she says don't assume you know how I feel. She told me all about it! She told me she loved me! I don't know about anyone else, but when I say it, I damn well mean it! Forever! "Feelings aren't enough to make it" how about feelings and two engineering salaries? I hope she can open her mind. There are some preconcieved ideas you aren't going to find in a real human! If I hadn't, we would never have been together. C'mon, I'm a martial artist, motorcyclist, engineer, scifi nut from middle of ****ing nowhere PA. Think anyone can guess who she is? A black nuclear engineer musician that's afraid of guns and bikes and came from NYC!! Also beautiful and smart and raunchy and funny. Dammit:tt: Ugh. [/rant] Off to the darkest most demented corners of my soul to duel with my feelings:sw: I know some of you will demand I get hammered and screw a stripper. To hell with that.:bslap:

From the little you describe of her, she is just not that into you and just playing mind games with you. I suggest you move on. I know it will be hard, but you will be better off in the long run with someone else.

:iagree: But best way to get a girl back- drop all communication immediately. Don't call, write, IM, text message etc. After a few months she may write a feeler message "hey what's up", write back "nothing". Chicks HATE the idea of you getting along great without them. Go watch Swingers. You're flucking money baby, and you don't even know it! :cheers:

Go watch Swingers. You're flucking money baby, and you don't even know it! :cheers: ??? googling...

:iagree: But best way to get a girl back- drop all communication immediately. Don't call, write, IM, text message etc. After a few months she may write a feeler message "hey what's up", write back "nothing". Chicks HATE the idea of you getting along great without them. Go watch Swingers. You're flucking money baby, and you don't even know it! :cheers: HAHAHAHAH, too true. Women hate you being happy without them. Only flaw in this trick is you most likely will be a lot happier without them and not want to take them back. :lol:

Heh- now I won't get any sleep tonight, and I have to go to my lame ass job again in the morning. Just Flucking wonderful Actually, I'm curious what the ladies think...

??? googling... It's a movie from the mid 90's about a guy going through a similar situation. Has Jon Favrau, Vince Vaughan, Heather Graham, funny as hell. Blockbuster will have it. HAHAHAHAH, too true. Women hate you being happy without them. Only flaw in this trick is you most likely will be a lot happier without them and not want to take them back. :lol: Exactly. Part of the idea is that when you decide you're not going to cry over this chick anymore, not going to write, not going to talk about her etc, it really helps you move past it. Take up excercise or heavy drinking. Both help you get up enough confidence to approach a possible rebound girl. :wink:

Right now I'm thinking about calling her to apologize. I wasn't very nice. I wish there was a decent MA school around here. Or that the roads were decent. Hopefully my other brother will get here tomorrow so we can go snowboard

Been there, done that... Exact same situation (minus the dual engineering degrees) Met her, and she was perfect for me, seemed I was right for her. Said we loved each other, at the time I meant it, I think she did too. I really thought she was the one. She was outgoing, fun, had some real goals in life. All of a sudden one day, she says she feels nothing for me anymore, and it's over. Tried to do a lot of things to get her back... none worked. Eventually figured it out... leave her alone... move on. It worked, and now i have a great gf that is all of that and more. :wink: You'll find another one... It takes time, but you're young, and there are a LOT of women out there... Trust me, if I can find a good one in the middle of no where ND, there's gotta be a good one in PA too! GOOD LUCK!:cheers:

Dont call her! Ignoring her will make her wonder what your doing, therefore she will call eventually....plus, girls like a challenge :) Well..i do anyways...

Trust me, if I can find a good one in the middle of no where ND, there's gotta be a good one in PA too! GOOD LUCK!:cheers: :dthumb: Good job SV! It sure doesn't look that way. Hell, even at PSU most of the girls were trash- almost dated a couple. Around here, they're either in high school or married with a kid on the way.

Dont call her! Ignoring her will make her wonder what your doing, therefore she will call eventually....plus, girls like a challenge :) Well..i do anyways... Yeah- but WTF is the "right kind of challenge"??? :lol: where are you? Kidding- I'm not about to try that for a long time.:nonod: :yaewn: This night is going to suck- and tomorrow, and the next day...

don't ever try to call her again. if she wants you she will call you. maybe if 3 months go by you could try giving her a call assuming she hasn't told you to never call her. thats all i can give you when there is a break up and you want to get back together.

:dthumb: Good job SV! It sure doesn't look that way. Hell, even at PSU most of the girls were trash- almost dated a couple. Around here, they're either in high school or married with a kid on the way. hell... it seemed here that all the women were either married, or in highschool with kids on the way. :lol:

hell... it seemed here that all the women were either married, or in highschool with kids on the way. :lol: :slol: nice Well, I'm beat:yaewn: I won't sleep, but closing my eyes feels really good right now. I still think I'll call her tomorrow after work. If anyone has any good advice:wink: or just wants to share in my misery:nkick: , come on in.

Forget about it! If its true love it'll be back, if not your better of without it! Thats the true test of love! And it eats girls up when your happy with out them and not all up under their as$ graveling n chit!! Best of luck to you bro!

get drunk and delete all contact info you have for her. makes the whole not calling thing easier. mine, well obviously after being deployed for the better part of the last four years its been a while since ive had a relationship. anyway because of that break id been following her lead on things and all of a sudden she decides she feels guilty about doing things with me (she just left an ltr with some d-bag who didnt treat her very well and just so happens to be in prison at the moment) and starts blaming the whole shebang on me. cant seem to understand why i got upset about the whole thing either. even went so far as to call me immature (i never cursed her out or called her any names. didnt air any of her personal business to friends or strangers) anyway that was enough for me. we'll see what happens when the next one rolls around

Actually I'm in the same boat... only a little further down that river... me and my ex of 5 years... finally said goodbye completely... long story short... we tried to get back together but it never seemed to work out... we were both in love with each other but there was always something causing us to be apart... over the last year we stayed close friends... best friends actually... but that's what caused the end really. we were still in love with each other so neither of us could move on... and it was obvious we just couldn't make it work for what ever reason... so about 2 months ago we parted ways... we don't talk period... no calls... no e-mails... not even a Merry Christmas... I imagine someday we'll connect again but right now... we both need to move on with our lives... and the only way to do that is to separate her from my life. It sucks... especially this time of year... but I know things will turn out for me... every time I think that I'm in a rut that just won't end something brings me out. you'll find something/someone to fill the void... but do me a favor and make it a positive thing... hate to see anyone make a bad permanent choice to a temporary situation... ya know? hope ya feel better Ebbs :cheers:

I thought we were best friends. Thought things would be okay when the stress wore off. She seems to take stress to all new levels though. And now I have basically no one to talk to about this chit.:loser: Feeling a little better now- not as "hollow" as when she first broke it off. I flucking hate that last night happened over IM. Wish it could have been in person or not at all. I just wanted to say merry christmas and see how her move was going. Man did I foul up.

To make matters worse, my brother is on his way, and no doubt he'll have his irritating little blonde girlfriend in tow. She seems to have no personality of her own except a squeaky voice and I want to punch her in the face for it. Okay- that's a bit harsh, but dammit grow a personality girl.

Man, get drunk and delete all contact info! Women love a chalenge, hate to be choked, and hate when they think your doing better without you! Not to mention anyone can sweat talk someone back to delay the break up, but only true love can realy fix the relationship! If you gave it your all and she still walked and doesnt come back she wasn't good enough for you any way.

I kinda agree with the guys, make this a clean break. Sounds like she was def trying to let you know that she isnt all that into you anymore and possibly provoked you into the argument to force your hand in the matter. Dont call her, let her call you. Seriously, after just going through some **** personally, the less you bother her the better. Because your hurt, your attempts to contact her will start out okay, then get ugly, then you'll feel like a total douche and try and make it better and it just becomes a never ending vicious cycle. Let her contact you. If she does it was meant to be, if not, your better off in the long run. It sucks but thats how it goes.

I kinda agree with the guys, make this a clean break. Sounds like she was def trying to let you know that she isnt all that into you anymore and possibly provoked you into the argument to force your hand in the matter. Dont call her, let her call you. Seriously, after just going through some **** personally, the less you bother her the better. Because your hurt, your attempts to contact her will start out okay, then get ugly, then you'll feel like a total douche and try and make it better and it just becomes a never ending vicious cycle. Let her contact you. If she does it was meant to be, if not, your better off in the long run. It sucks but thats how it goes. I wanted to quote everyone in this thread.... but Rae was closest. It sucks. Been there, done that.... Just don't call. Don't write. Don't do anything.... even to apologise. It doesn't matter to her right now anyways. sorry for what you and so many others have had to deal with.... sucks, but it's part of life. People get hurt... really sucks. Just hang in there. Don't call her.... get busy. Go find something to do. nothings worse than sitting around with nothing to do to keep you occupied and your mind from wandering.

Been there, done that... Exact same situation (minus the dual engineering degrees) Met her, and she was perfect for me, seemed I was right for her. Said we loved each other, at the time I meant it, I think she did too. I really thought she was the one. She was outgoing, fun, had some real goals in life. All of a sudden one day, she says she feels nothing for me anymore, and it's over. Tried to do a lot of things to get her back... none worked. Eventually figured it out... leave her alone... move on. It worked, and now i have a great gf that is all of that and more. :wink: You'll find another one... It takes time, but you're young, and there are a LOT of women out there... Trust me, if I can find a good one in the middle of no where ND, there's gotta be a good one in PA too! GOOD LUCK!:cheers: Hell that sounds like my first marriage! Took us 12 years to find out she really didn't want to work on making us work.:bslap: Relationships take 2 commited people! You may want to make it work, think you can force it stubbornly to your will but you just can't NEMO. Oops I think my 2 year olds movie marathon is creeping in to my thought processes...:leaving:

dude, you deserve better than this girl. find someone that wants to return your affections. they're out there. perhaps it's just the holidays amplifying your feelings. they tend to have that effect on people. chin up, most girls want a nice guy that treats them well. you'll find one.

Well, she emailed me today. Her Christmas Present arrived- a nice starter Bonsai tree for her new place. I really hope we can still be close friends. We were friends for years before, but never spoke that much. I asked her to call me when she gets to Atlanta. I want to know she had a safe, smooth trip. I don't know how it's all going to work out, but I can breathe a little easier now.

Well, she emailed me today. Her Christmas Present arrived- a nice starter Bonsai tree for her new place. I really hope we can still be close friends. We were friends for years before, but never spoke that much. I asked her to call me when she gets to Atlanta. I want to know she had a safe, smooth trip. I don't know how it's all going to work out, but I can breathe a little easier now. nice, i thought i was the only guy who sent bonsais

nice, i thought i was the only guy who sent bonsais hahaha- no chit? I want one, but got no space right now.

I really hope you find someone that is worth your time. But as for this woman she is not the one. It sounds to me like she never really loved you at all, but instead was toying with the thought of being in love. Some people just dont seem to understand the difference. Some people can say the words and have no meaning to them. And part of it could be that she just has way to many goals right now and having a relationship is just not one of them. Move on because from the sounds of it you seem like one hell of a man and you deserve better that what she has to offer.

And part of it could be that she just has way to many goals right now and having a relationship is just not one of them. That's one of the things she said. I hoped she would rethink things after she settled in. BANG that blew up in my face- she won't even consider it right now. Move on because from the sounds of it you seem like one hell of a man and you deserve better that what she has to offer. Wow you overestimate me... Where do I meet women that think the way you do?

That's one of the things she said. I hoped she would rethink things after she settled in. BANG that blew up in my face- she won't even consider it right now. Wow you overestimate me... Where do I meet women that think the way you do? they're probably all around you, but perhaps not pretty enough to be noticed. :idk: the good women usually get overlooked for the big breasts/killer bodies etc.

they're probably all around you, but perhaps not pretty enough to be noticed. :idk: the good women usually get overlooked for the big breasts/killer bodies etc. Most of those breasts and bodies are attached to bitches.:idk: I'm not even going to look. Def. need time to sort things out.

they're probably all around you, but perhaps not pretty enough to be noticed. :idk: the good women usually get overlooked for the big breasts/killer bodies etc. :iagree: But even if you did find a good woman, it doesnt sound like right now is the best time to pursue anything, unless its just a hookup, she would most likely end up a rebound girl, and thats no fun. I just had my heart ****ted on too..i feel for ya....but you gotta let her go.

Most of those breasts and bodies are attached to bitches.:idk: I'm not even going to look. Def. need time to sort things out. :iagree: take all the time you need. the right girl will come along at the right time. you wanna be ready for that when it happens. :cheers:

:iagree: take all the time you need. the right girl will come along at the right time. you wanna be ready for that when it happens. :cheers: Thanks Itgirl. You know, there's not much hotter than a smart women that takes care of business, gives good advice, and rides.

Arrrrggghhhhhhh:cursin: My girl "EX" and I just had an argument over ****ing IM!!! The entire world can go to hell right now!!!!:redevil: blah blah I know some of you will demand I get hammered and screw a stripper. To hell with that.:bslap: man, i wish you the best. only thing i can tell you is that its NOT meant to be and you NEED to move on asap. dont waste your energy trying to figure out what you did wrong, instead, just go have a lot of sex.

That's one of the things she said. I hoped she would rethink things after she settled in. BANG that blew up in my face- she won't even consider it right now. Wow you overestimate me... Where do I meet women that think the way you do? I hate to say it but there are not many like me. I am an arrogant ******* to most, but very kind to those who are sincere and try to do the right thing. And lets just tell the truth that most women are cruel and have no idea what they want out of life. But the women that do know what they want with out a doubt and have no problems expressing themselves are the greatest gift a man could have. The problem is being able to tell the difference between the two before it is too late.

Thanks Itgirl. You know, there's not much hotter than a smart women that takes care of business, gives good advice, and rides. From what I've found, the "good ones" usually are the ones that show up when you want to be alone. They are the ones that will try to help you through the tough stuff, even though you keep pushing them away. And when you do finally figure out what you want, or at least open up to start looking, they are still there for you.

I just read all of this..... and really.... MOVE ON. Don't hang on and try to be all close with her, she'll be playing head games with you. Get on with your life, show her you don't need her, and find new things. Nothing will get a woman like feeling she's unneeded. Sounds like she's manipulative.

my honest opinion... try to move on.... i was in the same situation... sorta met the "perfect girl", we were together for 4 years, and engaged for 2.... we were set to get married in june of 2005.... but then uncle sam said "aw hell no" and i was deployed in march of '05.... so what does my "perfect girl" do while her man is getting shot at??? she just goes whoring around with a marine who knew i was over there... and the worst part was, i was such a sap once i found out, i ALMOST took her back. point is, i just cut her off, and i mean completely... it hurt for a while, and it was hard seeing myself being happy again... but everything happens for a reason, and that reason was so i could meet my real "perfect girl" (my fiance)... point is, i'm not saying she was screwing around.... just.... i'll put it the way my pops put it to me.... if your not having fun 95% of the time, then its not worth being in the relationship... and i've found that to be very true.... just give it time, and you'll meet your real "perfect girl" when you least expect it

I'm going to comment on this thread when I have more time... Signed, Dr. Douglas, PHD

There are no perfect people, no perfect relationships, but I do know that it takes 2 people really trying. It is tough trying to find that chemistry, that instant "I feel complete when I am with you" person but it is so right when you find it. The emotion is why we join together, but the motives behind the emotion are just as important. My first wife and I were perfect matches, but wanted different lifestyles, different priorities. We could not reconcile our differences and ended up hurting each other and killing the chemistry and attraction we had for one another. Sounds like you had the chemistry down but if your motives for being in the relationship were different pursuing this women will end in another break up. I know because my first wife and I did just that prior to getting married. She wanted out, I cut her off, she came back. Love stories say that if you love them let them go and if they are meant to be yours they will return. Mine came back for the chemistry but we really wasted 12 years trying to make us one. Go now and find your happy place!:wink:

my honest opinion... try to move on.... i was in the same situation... sorta met the "perfect girl", we were together for 4 years, and engaged for 2.... we were set to get married in june of 2005.... but then uncle sam said "aw hell no" and i was deployed in march of '05.... so what does my "perfect girl" do while her man is getting shot at??? she just goes whoring around with a marine who knew i was over there... and the worst part was, i was such a sap once i found out, i ALMOST took her back. point is, i just cut her off, and i mean completely... it hurt for a while, and it was hard seeing myself being happy again... but everything happens for a reason, and that reason was so i could meet my real "perfect girl" (my fiance)... point is, i'm not saying she was screwing around.... just.... i'll put it the way my pops put it to me.... if your not having fun 95% of the time, then its not worth being in the relationship... and i've found that to be very true.... just give it time, and you'll meet your real "perfect girl" when you least expect it i hope you beat that mother****ers ass. nobody likes a jodie

I'm going to comment on this thread when I have more time... Signed, Dr. Douglas, PHD :lol:

She couldn't lie to me, so there isn't anyone else. She's just really hard-headed- same as me:whistle: It's just the one issue we really butt heads on is about us.:idk: We'll see how it works out. Right now I just feel like I don't have to worry about anyone besides myself. Not a bad feeling actually.

Right now I just feel like I don't have to worry about anyone besides myself. Not a bad feeling actually. Yeah, there's really something to be said for that, isn't there? After getting out of a long relationship once, I felt a humongous relief... just being able to think about myself only, for once..

Read my new book, "How to please and keep a woman even if she is acting like a ahole at times and my feelings are torn apart" After you read it and your feeling better, I'll send you my bill. You may also want to read, "Manology 301" it's the third in a four part series that I've written. Signed, Dr Douglas PHD And for the record PR, the hot new artist is a babe.

Read my new book, "How to please and keep a woman even if she is acting like a ahole at times and my feelings are torn apart" After you read it and your feeling better, I'll send you my bill. You may also want to read, "Manology 301" it's the third in a four part series that I've written. Signed, Dr Douglas PHD And for the record PR, the hot new artist is a babe. and where can we get said books?

http://www.How to please and keep a woman even if she is acting like a ahole at times and my feelings are torn apart.comand where can we get said books? http://www.manology.com Here ya go....

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:lol:nice manology is a "real" site...imagine that!

manology is a "real" site...imagine that! I've seen weirder sites :leaving:

check this one out http://www.nomarriage.com/

Ode to the Perfect Woman The perfect woman does not have red hair, Blonde hair, brown hair or hair at all. She is neither short, nor tall, nor big or small. She loves me unconditionally for who I am, Not for what I drive, where I live or what I do Oh yeah, and by the way - she has big tits too.

Ode to the Perfect Woman The perfect woman does not have red hair, Blonde hair, brown hair or hair at all. She is neither short, nor tall, nor big or small. She loves me unconditionally for who I am, Not for what I drive, where I live or what I do Oh yeah, and by the way - she has big tits too. http://www.sheltron.net/images/quirky/perfect_woman.jpg

http://www.sheltron.net/images/quirky/perfect_woman.jpg :slol: with a woman like that, you don't have to worry about any :motz: when your trying to :cheers:

:slol: with a woman like that, you don't have to worry about any :motz: when your trying to :cheers: :lol: exactly!

And for the record PR, the hot new artist is a babe. That's her sister... and she's engaged- so don't get any ideas:wink:

http://www.sheltron.net/images/quirky/perfect_woman.jpg She's got no tits!!!!!

She's got no tits!!!!! :withstupi

www.manties.com lolz

www.manties.com lolz WTF?! :barf: And that is one creepy avatar.

www.manties.com lolz :disapp: BAN HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:disapp: BAN HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!! blame ebbs for saying he'd seen wierder sites lol

blame ebbs for saying he'd seen wierder sites lol I said I'd seen weirder... didn't say POST THEM! :skep:

lol cmon now, that could have been way worse! they could have had models :P

Is it wrong to...admire my bros' girls? :redevil: Felt like a dirty old man tryin' to avoid looking at my 16 yo brothers girlfriend. She was showing way too much skin for a family Christmas thing. I thought my 3 and 5 yo cousins were going to pull her top right off :yikes: Decent looking girl too- she actually has a better body than my 21 yo brother's girl. (no ass and mosquito bites):idk: :leaving:

Is it wrong to...admire my bros' girls? :redevil: Felt like a dirty old man tryin' to avoid looking at my 16 yo brothers girlfriend. She was showing way too much skin for a family Christmas thing. I thought my 3 and 5 yo cousins were going to pull her top right off :yikes: Decent looking girl too- she actually has a better body than my 21 yo brother's girl. (no ass and mosquito bites):idk: :leaving: its all good until you get caught :dthumb:

"Never covent thy neighboor's girl" or something like that.....somebody check this bible verse for me!

"Never covent thy neighboor's girl" or something like that.....somebody check this bible verse for me! You shall not covet your neighbour’s house; you shall not covet your neighbour’s wife, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbour.

You shall not covet your neighbour’s house; you shall not covet your neighbour’s wife, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbour. "its all good until you get caught " but it's ok until you get caught right....:lol: Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour's wife (or little brother's girl), to defile thyself with her. Leviticus 18:20

Wait until you're about 33, then start looking through the pool of 24-year-old women to find a good one. By that age you're as confident as you'll ever be, and at their age they've already started showing all of the mental disorders they've picked up (if any.) Plus, at that point, a woman your age who's a good catch is most likely already taken and/or has had kids.

Scissors has a point. But watch out for the ones with children. Be very careful about the children. They are little submerged mines that can derail any good relationship. Relationship best be bullet proof or avoid it.

they're probably all around you, but perhaps not pretty enough to be noticed. :idk: the good women usually get overlooked for the big breasts/killer bodies etc. AMEN! Wait until you're about 33, ...... Plus, at that point, a woman your age who's a good catch is most likely already taken and/or has had kids. HEY! I'm almost your age. Oh, wait a tic. Phenix_Rider, I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak. Ebb and I discussed our situations before. We were in similar boats. Problem with being in love with someone you're trying to be friends with, you'll always end up hurting yourself more. Move on, darling. If she's willing to throw you away to begin with and over such petty crap, she doesn't deserve you. Truly. :hug:

AMEN! HEY! I'm almost your age. Oh, wait a tic. Phenix_Rider, I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak. Ebb and I discussed our situations before. We were in similar boats. Problem with being in love with someone you're trying to be friends with, you'll always end up hurting yourself more. Move on, darling. If she's willing to throw you away to begin with and over such petty crap, she doesn't deserve you. Truly. :hug: well put

:iagree:

they're probably all around you, but perhaps not pretty enough to be noticed. :idk: the good women usually get overlooked for the big breasts/killer bodies etc. AMEN! Hey I know quite a few guys who get chitted on by gals because they don't look like the guys in the DB photos (see previous post of Girls w/ DB's and you'll understand). Double edged sword which sucks. Know a good friend of mine (female) who only goes for the pretty boys herself and constantly finds herself in trouble.... and ya can't talk no sense into her because she's a pretty girl herself... :idk:

Hey I know quite a few guys who get chitted on by gals because they don't look like the guys in the DB photos (see previous post of Girls w/ DB's and you'll understand). Double edged sword which sucks. Know a good friend of mine (female) who only goes for the pretty boys herself and constantly finds herself in trouble.... and ya can't talk no sense into her because she's a pretty girl herself... :idk: Yeha, looks come and go, but personalitys forever! Girls do all the same junk guys do! I have a female friend Im always having to get out of bad situations because she gets with guys who look good but act like chit and they turn dam near balistic on her or some tipe of chity act!

Phenix_Rider, I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak. Ebb and I discussed our situations before. We were in similar boats. Problem with being in love with someone you're trying to be friends with, you'll always end up hurting yourself more. Move on, darling. If she's willing to throw you away to begin with and over such petty crap, she doesn't deserve you. Truly. :hug: pm'd ya

pm'd ya go get her ebbs! :dthumb:

go get her ebbs! :dthumb: :slol: she'd be in trouble if I lived anywhere near her :lol:

:slol: she'd be in trouble if I lived anywhere near her :lol: in the jungleeee the mighty jungleeee the lion sleeeeeps tonighttttt.... :dthumb:

in the jungleeee the mighty jungleeee the lion sleeeeeps tonighttttt.... :dthumb: :lol: let me rephrase... If I lived closer to Kat...she'd be rejecting me right now :lol:

:lol: let me rephrase... If I lived closer to Kat...she'd be rejecting me right now :lol: lmao. Damnz.

Sounds like we got a lot of burned guys... Too bad there aren't more single females around:tt:

Sounds like we got a lot of burned guys... Too bad there aren't more single females around:tt: ehh I'm sure there's just as many burned females around... just not on here... this is a sport (like most) dominated by men... the forums are no different... but to be honest... I'm in no rush... neither should you be. take your time... and completely move past her... THEN look for someone :2cents: I've tried the rebound thing... doesn't work...

in the jungleeee the mighty jungleeee the lion sleeeeeps tonighttttt.... :dthumb: :slol:

Sounds like we got a lot of burned guys... Too bad there aren't more single females around:tt: :iagree:

ehh I'm sure there's just as many burned females around... just not on here... this is a sport (like most) dominated by men... the forums are no different... but to be honest... I'm in no rush... neither should you be. take your time... and completely move past her... THEN look for someone :2cents: I've tried the rebound thing... doesn't work... Truth!! But its quite dificult to deal with a burnt woman, women hold grudges to hard!

Truth!! But its quite dificult to deal with a burnt woman, women hold grudges to hard! :iagree: :iagree: :iagree: :iagree: :iagree:

duel with my feelings :sw: laugh out loud sorry to hear it =/

laugh out loud sorry to hear it =/ :lol: we do have smilies here.... they'll save you a lot of typing... :lol: is laugh out loud :nonod: is like =/ just fyi :wink:

:lol: let me rephrase... If I lived closer to Kat...she'd be rejecting me right now :lol: im sure i'd be right there with ya buddy so i wouldnt feel too bad :rofl:

:lol: we do have smilies here.... they'll save you a lot of typing... :lol: is laugh out loud :nonod: is like =/ just fyi :wink: i like typing it out, its ironic cause all of the replacements

im sure i'd be right there with ya buddy so i wouldnt feel too bad :rofl: :lhump: :dthumb:

im sure i'd be right there with ya buddy so i wouldnt feel too bad :rofl: :lhump: :dthumb: :slol:

:lhump: :dthumb: third person leghumping ftw!

Proof there's something seriously wrong with a lot of the pretty ones.... (http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,319402,00.html)

:yikes: Thats a little much! But if you needed proff anyway then you must be a 40 yeear old virgin!

Proof there's something seriously wrong with a lot of the pretty ones.... (http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,319402,00.html) ehh she doesn't look all that great in the photos anyhow! :lol:

Proof there's something seriously wrong with a lot of the pretty ones.... (http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,319402,00.html) i guess shes one of the wake up in a bathtub full of ice kind :yikes:

ehh she doesn't look all that great in the photos anyhow! :lol: Agreed!

ehh she doesn't look all that great in the photos anyhow! :lol: They tend not to put up flattering pics anyways, it's like a rule.

ehh she doesn't look all that great in the photos anyhow! :lol: Dam Right!!

They tend not to put up flattering pics anyways, it's like a rule. Yeah, thats true, but its not a jail shot its a personal picture! Not to mention the fact that the hedline is talking about how she's such a beauty queen and she is totaly abusing the right to wear makeup!

Yeah, thats true, but its not a jail shot its a personal picture! Not to mention the fact that the hedline is talking about how she's such a beauty queen and she is totaly abusing the right to wear makeup! Man, mug shots are f'king horrible... and scary... see??? http://orvillelloyddouglas.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/michael-jackson-mugshot1.jpg

Man, mug shots are f'king horrible... and scary... see??? http://orvillelloyddouglas.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/michael-jackson-mugshot1.jpg :yikes: Whoa! No one wanted to see that chit!:barf:

:yikes: Whoa! No one wanted to see that chit!:barf: Soz... :cheers:

Man, mug shots are f'king horrible... and scary... see??? http://orvillelloyddouglas.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/michael-jackson-mugshot1.jpg I do you one better http://morticom.com/mugshotimage78actorsyasminebleethe.jpg

I dont know ebbs! Those two are pretty dam close! Im going to have night mares of the Michael Jacson one!!

can't see it. Off shift in ~ 1 hr so I'll check from home.

I dont know ebbs! Those two are pretty dam close! Im going to have night mares of the Michael Jacson one!! true... at least Yasmin can look like this

That one's not showing up ebbs!

That one's not showing up ebbs! fixed

Dam Right!! Stop thinking of Michael in that Ambly!!

hah i thought that was yasmin...i think id still hit it *edit looked at the pic again and im thinking no. lawls

hah i thought that was yasmin...i think id still hit it *edit looked at the pic again and im thinking no. lawls What laws??

What laws?? lol rofl lmfao roflmao lawl and laws all mean the same shiz buddy

lol rofl lmfao roflmao lawl and laws all mean the same shiz buddy oh, my fault, you wasnt sayin laws you was sayin lawls ok. Ben up all nigt and its 7 am. Eyes aint workin to good!

http://www.runswithscissors.info/images/funny/gek3nk.jpg

http://www.runswithscissors.info/images/funny/gek3nk.jpg waka chika wawa... she must climb a lot of stairs...:readng:

:woo: my girl...ex...friend:idk: called me last night and we spoke for an hour. She had one hell of a trip, but was comfy in her hotel room when she called. Happiest I've heard her in a while. Plane left 45 minutes late, but arrived 15 minutes early. Luggage didn't make it on the plane in NY. Drug and psych testing at the new job in the clothes she wore the day before and on the plane. Lousy, dirty, cold hotel rooms with dead bugs at an extended stay hotel. HR people at the job hooked her up though. This place wants her bad. They have her in a suite at the marriot or something nice, and the company is paying for all of it. They're even giving her cash on top of the moving expenses.:dthumb:

:woo: my girl...ex...friend:idk: called me last night and we spoke for an hour. She had one hell of a trip, but was comfy in her hotel room when she called. Happiest I've heard her in a while. Plane left 45 minutes late, but arrived 15 minutes early. Luggage didn't make it on the plane in NY. Drug and psych testing at the new job in the clothes she wore the day before and on the plane. Lousy, dirty, cold hotel rooms with dead bugs at an extended stay hotel. HR people at the job hooked her up though. This place wants her bad. They have her in a suite at the marriot or something nice, and the company is paying for all of it. They're even giving her cash on top of the moving expenses.:dthumb: congradulations to her. but seriously you should drop the phone calls. No offense man but you're gonna be heading right back to the :flush:

congradulations to her. but seriously you should drop the phone calls. No offense man but you're gonna be heading right back to the :flush: :iagree: seriously... I know it's extremely hard/almost impossible... I've been there.. but you need to take a step away... and let your mind/heart rest...

Look... Call her, explain that you need some time/space and you just can't speak with her for a while. Be honest, tell her it hurts too much. That you want her to be happy, and you're happy for her, but you need some time to recover.... Just be upfront and honest with her, be firm, and walk away for a bit.... It's gonna be tough bro... but you can do it.

Look... Call her, explain that you need some time/space and you just can't speak with her for a while. Be honest, tell her it hurts too much. That you want her to be happy, and you're happy for her, but you need some time to recover.... Just be upfront and honest with her, be firm, and walk away for a bit.... It's gonna be tough bro... but you can do it. Yeah!!! or you could do it the middle school way and just lye trying to make her jelous! <*not recomended*

or you could do it the middle school way and just lye trying to make her jelous! <*not recomended* Ummm... yeah.... I wouldn't advise that... it doesn't work well past say.... 15? 16???? Then after that they become super hot and you're thinking " holy chit wtf." cause ya know you're not tappin' that. :idk:

Ummm... yeah.... I wouldn't advise that... it doesn't work well past say.... 15? 16???? Then after that they become super hot and you're thinking " holy chit wtf." cause ya know you're not tappin' that. :idk: except in California :lol:

except in California :lol: Need we say more? Blonds, Bimbos, and Plastic Barbies!

Need we say more? Blonds, Bimbos, and Plastic Barbies! Just say no to aftermarket accessories.

Exactly!! My so joked about wanting the headlights for a moment when I first left for here, but it only lasted a few days and I didnt even have to say anything!