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What do u guys go do when u are feeling really down aobut everything and its not rideable weather? I need to find something to get my mind of all the crap happening right now but nothing is coming into my head that i wanna go do.

Go to Pockets, Play snooker and drink beer...rinse and repeat...

lol. The drink beer sounds good but i gotta work in an hour or so.... They tend to frown on that.. but i probalby will after work.

Three words. Playstation 2!!

well ive got xbox but i havent played Forza motorsport in a while, i always forget ihave the Xbox.. i htink its been used like 20 hors in over two years...Maybe i need to get really god at it..lol it lets ya down far less then life sometimes...Least i can mod my bike out and ride alot.. i decided this is the summer im ridng track and long trips Screw everyone and their plans, this is gonna be my summer for ME!

Start planning a Spring Weekend Ride!!!! Get out the maps, calandar, and phonelist; start calling your buds, lining up dates for the ride. Meet at your favorite place to start the planning......it'll get you out of today and into looking forward..plus, I find that half the fun of a good ride is the anticipation.

I tend to do one of two things... or both... Go after the wife in the bedroom... :dthumb: and/or Go to the gym and workout.

workout and as gas suggested but with a little more added, find a woman that's never been to browntown and see if she will let you lead down the chocolate path. I know I am sick, but that is something challenging to do if you got a lot of free time.

LOL Vol thats funnt... and Gas the MrsZ1000 is the cause of all the woes... or rather the fact the the one i wanted to make Mrs Scott Sellers now wants to be single...shes afraid if she doesnt go be 21 and screw off shell regret it later.. the joy of friends influence at a early age huh? So trying to lineup some new Mrs for the bedroom, but figure that takes time..... hopefully tomorrow cuz two days seems too long right now...lol

That's ****ty, man. 21 is a little too young to be tied down in my book. In my book 25 is too young. How long you been together? Keep your head up. It's defenately not the end of the world.

no end of the world its not, i decided that i will be happy today no matter what goes wrong. I have a bike therefore lifes good.... only 6 monthes which is the crazy part,.. i didnt even feel the same for my gf of 2 years....But the ocean is full of hotter fish to fry my man... So Vegas is a 100% this year even if its only a three day for me. And i NEVER thoght id tie myslef down till 30 or 35... and planned specifically not too, but with the right person lots of things change.. your whole life plan!

True. I'll be in Vegas, bro. Let me know.

If I cant relive stress on the bike. I get in the car. There has almost always been some sort of Hot Rod and or Sports Car in the driveway here. I cant play my PS 2 for shiot when I'm depressed and it makes it worse.

taking the jeep out in the muc always helps me..... and might i add calculus sucks.....i hate collage classes the rest is amazing, but the damn classes

I sometimes wax/polish the truck/bike. That always kills some time. Put some good music on, the next thing you know you're bobbin your head and in a good mood. I'll search ebay for stuff and I frequent the occasional porn site or two...or three...or four. :whistle:

taking the jeep out in the muc always helps me..... and might i add calculus sucks.....i hate collage classes the rest is amazing, but the damn classes I miss college so. I loved calculus, but I am also a dorky engineer. Working fulltime sucks, STAY IN COLLEGE FOREVER!

SEX!!!!and lots of it. Wear that ***** out bro.... Since the MRS is heading out, that gives you room to roam....The Males job is to spread his seed to all the lovely ladies of the world. So get to work my brother...:lol:

The Males job is to spread his seed to all the lovely ladies of the world. So get to work my brother...:lol: just make sure no trees grow....you'll have somethin to do for the rest of your life if that happens.

Scott... that sucks man. My wife and I got married early and dated even earlier but we are both still happy. I couldn't have asked for a better woman. And Vol... trying to get down that path is always a BIG challenge!!

Twisty--- U can bet im working at it..lol GAs- thats how i feel too, i never wanted to be married young, i figured like 35 would be a good age to get married, but im not a big partier, i like house parties but not a bar hopper and crazy guy, so ive changed my mind and decided id rahter have that great woman to have fun with everyday, and have someone that i can depend on no matter what... But life goes on, im gonna be a sead spreader tll i find the one worth stopping for.! lol

Wrap that sucker and keep the seed to your self.

Wrap that sucker and keep the seed to your self. :iagree: x 1000! You think you're miserable now. Just wait till you get that call from one of your one nighters saying you're gonna be a da da. :yikes: After 6 yrs with the same guy, mine dumped me cuz he likes to listen to other people. Oh well, his loss. What I did to get it off my mind was work. And I mean work a lot. I pulled 12 hr shifts 6 days a week for the first few weeks after it happened. Now on my days off, I either clean like a mad woman or think of the new 600RR I'll be getting next month. :) Keep your chin up man. I'll be OK. Hurts like hell at first, but then the hurt starts to fade. And I think your ex is right in a way, 21 is WAY to young to get married. In the end she may end up resenting you. Better to know now then later.

yeah, no the kids thing aint happening..lol And i would work 60 hours weeks excpet my job doesnt like to pay overtime which sucks, cuz i can htink of MANY things on the bike id still like to do if i had extra cash. But i decided im gonna start lifitng agian, get something that resembles pecs. Im kinda over the whole "oh $#!t my world is falling" thing and just looking more towards spending time with guy friends and just having fun like the good old days i used to love...no stress over woman or drama they bring. Went to the strip club last night...they are my favorite kinda woman right now..lol

Hey man! hit the gym, get yourself FOINE, buy yourself a nice shirt to go with your jeans... call some old GF to just see how they are doing. 21 is absolutely too young to be serious. tis far better skipping out b4 marriage than to get caught out there later. keep your head up

i used to be all for seeing how many girls i could be with, wanted to do hat forever. But last night i did and i imediatly felt bad... I think im done with all that crap. I know im only 22 but ive had 4 years of just getting lots of booty and its not a rush or anyhting im happy about anymore. I dont wanna be out partying till 4am everynight, i cant do it i need to much sleep. I know i sound old but i guess when u meet the one u feel like u KNOW u should be with till u die, it changes things, last three days i feel like im cheating on the Ex by talking to girls... its not possible i know, but if i TRUELY feel like i shouldnt give up on it and move on theres gotta be a reason, cuz i dont get stuck on things ever. But when i started this post i felt so incredibly different then today. I'd be all too happy to go back ot the old me when i was happy and doing all that, but its not me anymore. And as for the gym, have bench in the garage, for three days been meaning to get out to it and today i feel really weak, think i need to force a loto f water and get some long overdue sleep, but im gonna build upper body for sure now.

Just because you don't want to stay out all night drinking or what have you and hitting the all you can eat clam bar, doesn't make you old, it's scary but guess what, you grew up! :yikes: Yes, sorry to say, but there is a time in most peoples lives when they become responsible adults. I'm not talking about paying bills blah blah blah, I'm talking about having respect. Not only for yourself but for others. Sucks don't it?! As for feeling like you're cheating? Well, I know the feeling. I think we all do. When you've been with some one for so long, it's hard to see yourself "not" with them. You're used to doing all the wild and crazy stuff with them by your side and if you didn't you knew to whom you were going home to. I promise all of this will pass. It'll just take a while. Don't go and push yourself into doing things you don't want to just because you feel the need to prove to yourself or others that you're over the ex. If you feel like staying in and doing nothing, well then damn it, do it. Just because you're not out there, hosing the honnies doesn't make you less of a man. It shows that you're a human being like the rest of us that has feelings and those feelings right now are a little hurt and confused. Take your time. Don't push yourself into anything that you'll regret later on.

:iagree: with Jappys.... Just cause you grew up faster than some doesn't mean its bad. I got married at 24 but my wife was just shy of 21. We don't regret it at all! As a matter of fact, I'm farther in life than most of my friends that haven't got married. I think it is all linked together. When you grow up in the relationship dept you do as well in every other dept.

I have to agree with GM on this. I don't think I would be now where near where I'm at now if I hadn't found the right girl early.

I have to agree with GM on this. I don't think I would be now where near where I'm at now if I hadn't found the right girl early. Yep you just can't succeed as easily without the right person to back you 150% of the time! :dthumb:

im definitely not a believer of "THE ONE" except for in the Matrix. If THE ONE was the one that i broke up with in college, then the rest of my life is screwed... be friends, chill, enjoy the things that make you you. i am absolutely certain that you will come across someone later on in life that will make this whole comversation moot. breaking up sucks ass big time and we can really fall into depression with the fear of being alone, and we can try and compensate for it by screwing around. you have to be happy with yourself and the knowlege that... this too shall pass!

being alone has never been a worry for me, my biggest fear in life is getitgn the right job... no worries at all of alone. But im with Jeeps and GM thinking that i will do better with someone to be there with, plus it makes u try so much harder so much more of the time. AND i got my suspension set up by a racer today!!! rode ALL day, the bike does everything better now... ?AND got a rear stadn for $@)... all in all one HELL of a good day.

How much you pay for the tune?

Scott I'm not telling you to go and get married. It just worked for me. I think God for that every day. It may be meant for it to work like this. Your new girl may be waiting around the corner for you. Have fun and enjoy your new found freedom but don't overlook a possible good thing.

the suspension tune was free! went to have shop quote me on installing front springs....they gave me number of racer that they refer rear spring set up to, i called, he said come over well see how well we can make your facotry peices work for you... We made em work good....no charge unless they needed revalved or better stuff... didnt ven use the race tech springs i bought, might just sell those.. or could install em later if i feel a need.

What do u guys go do when u are feeling really down aobut everything and its not rideable weather? I need to find something to get my mind of all the crap happening right now but nothing is coming into my head that i wanna go do. "Same thing we do every night pinky...try to ruuule the world":lol: On serious note, I go to Thai Boxing practice...it definitely helps me clear my mind.

Damn, I haven't seen that cartoon in a while. That's a good quote. Do they still make that show?

Damn, I haven't seen that cartoon in a while. That's a good quote. Do they still make that show? I havent seen it on any stations for a long time.....it was a good cartoon...If it does air somewhere..Im gonna have to Tivo it.:lol:

Word, word.

Scott I'm not telling you to go and get married. It just worked for me. I think God for that every day. It may be meant for it to work like this. Your new girl may be waiting around the corner for you. Have fun and enjoy your new found freedom but don't overlook a possible good thing. :withstupi When you find the right girl...there will be no doubts in your mind whats-soever!!

GM... I am at that point now... i havent doubted that for monthes. And she still says shes ognna end up married to me and thats what she wants, but she needs time right now before she can do that. So itll all work out in the end

She needs time to hang out with other guys.

Hey if it works out...it works out and was meant to be... if not then it wasn't meant to be. A old saying that my grandmother told me years and years ago and has always served me well! Don't force it!

Yeah, you gotta use lube. :lol:

Yeah, you gotta use lube. :lol: :rofl3: Seriously Scott, Don't force it to hard. You may push her away. Stay in touch if she will allow it and don't pimp any new girls around in front of her. She WILL retaliate.:2cents:

yeah i figure any new guy will prove to be a dickcheese like most so im not worried, and im just gonna hango ut and see how it goes. I just uiwsh thuis happended during riding seaosn..lol i wouldnt have even cared, i woulda been out all night everynigth on the Z then.