I know this is the ladies area where we need to discuss ladies motorcycle topics, but I since hair spray, tampons and the such have been discussed, I thought I'd throw this out there and get some opinions.
Ok ladies, I know we've all been there. Just out of a relationship (ok so 8 months isn't recent) no dates lined up, and the dates that you do have lined up you know are going to be just as bad as the last few. Now, I'm not big on Internet dating. Hell, I've never done it before period. There are to many weirdos out there. You never know if you're talking to the person in the picture or a 12 yr old boy?!! And well, since I live in an area where there isn't much night life (ok there's NO night life) I went the safe route, or so I thought, and joined this eHarmony thing.
First off, it costs an arm and a leg! For a few months membership it'll run you $80+!! You fill out this profile that takes at least an hour and they match you up with the people that you have most in common with. They also ask you certain questions like, "What will you not tolerate in a relationship?" and they give you choices to chose from like, drugs, drinking etc etc.. Well one of them is children. Now I know it sounds strange to other women that this one woman, aka me, will not date someone with kids. I have my reasons for not wanting them nor wanted to date someone with kids.
This is what makes me mad. ALL of the people this site has introduced me to HAVE KIDS! WTH?! I made it perfectly clear that I will not date someone with children. Also, I made it clear that I will not give up my bike for anything or any one. Period. The people that I have talked to told me that the first thing I would have to do is get rid of my bike!! UM NO!! lol
I'm at a loss! I don't know what to do any more. I think that I'm ready to give myself to someone full time, but this is the crap that I'm running into. The dates I have been on turned out to be a total joke. When I make it perfectly clear that I do not kiss, and I don't mean just on the first date, I mean ever, these guys go out of there way to try anyway! lol Not only that but most of them have lied about their marital status. They say they're single and once I'm out on a date with them, they reveal that they're married!!
Then they say the typical "Well, it's been over for years." And ask if I have a problem with it?! Well, DUH!! YES!! Of course I would! what a bunch of dopes!!
UGH! Really, I think I'm going to give up. The people I'm meeting are either married, liars, or trying to get in my pants, which is NOT going to happen. No matter how long it's been I will not put out.
What is it that I'm doing wrong? Am I asking to much or what? Some one that loves bikes, has one of their own and not married and no kids.. lol I really don;t think that's to much to ask for...