So here's this week's controversial, deep and meaningful discussion thread.
A thread on another forum, as well as a post in 1Bad's thread got me to thinking....
Originally Posted by Captain Morgan
Exactly. If it was a dream, then it sounds like someone has a guilty conscience.
The thread on another forum asks "If you think about someone other than your S.O. (i.e. an ex) while you (spend quality time with yourself), is it cheating?"
Here's my take: Fantasy (and dreams) are just that -- fantasy. Fabrications of the mind that we can't 100% control. I'm sure many of us have fantasized about things/people we'd never DREAM of doing (even given the opportunity) in real life. But in the privacy of our own minds, it's safe, there's no repercussions, and it's an outlet for those things we CAN'T act out for real.
Assuming the relationship with the S.O. is healthy and happy, and the fantasies aren't interfering with intimacy with that person/it hasn't become obsessive, then I don't think the occasional mind-fling with someone other than them (be it Jenna Jameson or the guy at the Dry Cleaners) is a big deal.
Ok, discuss amongst yourselves....