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post #1 of 97 (permalink) Old 05-23-2007, 12:22 AM Thread Starter
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I broke up with my GF and I feel...

Terrible... I've been with her for 2 years and it just wasn't meant to be... I care so much about her and she's the nicest person I think I have ever met... I just don't love her...

My buddy's wife just came and picked her up and I feel like the biggest f*cking peice of crap in the world... I wish I could make it easier for her...

I just want to wrap my arms around her and make it all go away, but I can't...

I don't know why I am even posting this... This ****ing sucks.
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man... what's your deal? If you don't love her than you shouldn't drag it on for her sake and you did the right thing. If you love her and still broke up with her you need to figure out why...




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man... what's your deal? If you don't love her than you shouldn't drag it on for her sake and you did the right thing. If you love her and still broke up with her you need to figure out why...
I know...

It just wasn't right... I knew it, she kinda knew it... but I hurt her a lot... and I am a total douche for doing it...
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So you're a douche for not dating her for 2 more years before telling her you don't love her? Seems to me you did both yourself as well as her a favor.
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been there done that bro, 2 years from now it won't matter. its hard now but many of us have been through that. gotta cut stuff off sooner when you know it won't work and move onto the next one. no more long term locked up relationships for me til i'm wifed up.
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Man the last hard core g/f I had before my wife... break up was UGLY! But shortly after that... when the emotions subside. I realized... hell the whole relationship revolved around sex. I mean we went everyday for 2 years... humpin like twice a day... the inside roof of my car neversaw any girls bare feet as mush as her... it was crazy... then you move on... and start hittin tail with some different broad... then BAM! Next thing you know... a girl twists your knob in a different way and you marry the woman...

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Sorry to hear that..... Even when it's the "right" thing, it's difficult, and painful for everyone involved....
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dude maybe you just needed some space to get your priorities together. Sounds like you care for her more then you think- be careful- don't throw it away if it was good. Good girls are few and FAR between!
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I know...

It just wasn't right... I knew it, she kinda knew it... but I hurt her a lot... and I am a total douche for doing it...
Nah dude you aren't a douche, it's actually better in the long run that you did this. If you didn't love her, you made the right decision. Better than dragging it on and making it any worse, maybe you can still salvage a friendship instead of dragging it to the bitter end. I had similar relationship that was very hard to end because I really liked the girl, but didn't love her. It will be hard, but if you are sure you don't love her just don't make it worse by going back to her or giving her false hope. You will both get through it and hopefully find someone better.

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Hang in there babe. Like the guys said, take some time on your own, if you realize she really was what you wanted then I'm sure you guys could work something out, but if it wasn't meant to be and your sure of that, then this was the best thing. Two years is a long time already... dragging it out so no one got hurt would only make things worse. It'll get better
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I know...

It just wasn't right... I knew it, she kinda knew it... but I hurt her a lot... and I am a total douche for doing it...

Better to do it know than years after the wedding. 2yrs mark eh...was she puttin on the pressure to pop the question?
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You'll be aight, man. Just go get boozed up with your buddies and smash out other girls. It's better to break it off for those reasons, rather than drag it on. When you spend that amount of time with someone, of course you'll feel that way. It's natural. It'll pass. I'm gonna Paypal you $12.50 so you can get a 40 and a blunt.
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Dude, for the most part, ppl here are being constructive. It will pass over time..Do a lil drinkin(safely) and bang out a few randoms, it will get better. You can still be nice to her, and maybe even salvage a friendship. Hell i just got done with a divorce, and im pretty darn happy! THX Leah!
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Screw salvaging a friendship. Just forget about her. You're proly gonna try to get back together if you keep talking to her. Do you really want to go through that BS? All of my ex girls hate me, and I'm completely fine with that. Just move on. Hopefully you got some good friends that will help take your mind of it.
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Im still talking to my ex and we are fine as friends..I dunno different strokes for different folks.
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All of my ex girls hate me, and I'm completely fine with that. Just move on.
Awesome something we have in common. I never felt like it was over until they wanted me dead.

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Im still talking to my ex and we are fine as friends..I dunno different strokes for different folks.
You're probably a nicer guy than I am.

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Awesome something we have in common. I never felt like it was over until they wanted me dead.
My last relationship before this one ended like this:

Girl: I feel like you're not attracted to me anymore.
Me (without hesitating): I'm not.
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My last relationship before this one ended like this:

Girl: I feel like you're not attracted to me anymore.
Me (without hesitating): I'm not.
Nice.

My last was we were sitting on the couch watching some crappy movie real early on a friday night. And I was like "I am going home." She asked when I was coming back, I said "never." She called me up a week later and we fought and ended it on the phone. We had severe problems though. So it wasn't unexpected.

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Nice.

My last was we were sitting on the couch watching some crappy movie real early on a friday night. And I was like "I am going home." She asked when I was coming back, I said "never." She called me up a week later and we fought and ended it on the phone. We had severe problems though. So it wasn't unexpected.
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Thanks guys...
I guess I was just searching for some solice in TWF... I feel a million times better today now that she's not sitting here in front of me sobbing uncontrollably for 3 hours... It's still a damn shame... I feel like I wish I loved her... As it has been said already, good girls are hard to come by... and my friends are about zero help... Most of them say, "you'll never find anyone better." That's probably the truth, but I couldn't continue it out of selfishness...

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Better to do it know than years after the wedding. 2yrs mark eh...was she puttin on the pressure to pop the question?
No not at all... She was 100% zero pressure about EVERYTHING...

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You'll be aight, man. Just go get boozed up with your buddies and smash out other girls. It's better to break it off for those reasons, rather than drag it on. When you spend that amount of time with someone, of course you'll feel that way. It's natural. It'll pass. I'm gonna Paypal you $12.50 so you can get a 40 and a blunt.
It may be time for me to start smoking blunts again... Nah, I'll just go see my doctor... Dr. Jose Cuervo... He is highly recommended, with locations all over the world.
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