Oh and about your girl. If you think she's the one, be possitive about the whole thing. Beat it into her that you WILL get through it. It's been 3 months now and we're still going strong. I got Vonage and we talk everyday. Usually more than once too. Not sure if you know how Vonage works, but they try to give you any US number you want. If it's not available, they'll give you one in your desired area code. Unlimited local and long distance, states only, for 25 bucks plus tax. Not bad at all.