of all the things I want to do before I die,
the single most important is find the someone I truly love, and be with them. then have them behind me on the bike when I die.
that matters more to me than any material thing, or job, or anything else you can think of.
but when I die, the hell with a memorial service and all that sad crap. just throw a big party in my honor, and remember the good times. celebrate the life, dont mourn the death.